There is hardly any couple that doesn’t face any difficulty in their relationship. Whether you’re married or in a live-in relationship, you too have to deal with unwanted and rough situations in your relationship. It is not always about showing the back and move away. If you love that person, then with multiple adjustments, sacrifices, love, and compassion you will try to hold him or her back and live a happy conjugal life.
Sometimes sex related problems are manhandled by most married couples and mostly they are heard to end up with a divorce. But before separating, they should give it a second chance by trying some useful and fruitful things that are expected to be enough and welcoming to reconcile their broken marriage. Sex is not everything in the marriage but again sex is holding the primary key to reach the other door in the marriage.
So, if you’re going through a troubled marriage or about to tie the knot, then know some secrets of a happy sex life—
Consult a couple’s counselor
Before getting hitched, consult a couple’s counselor. This is said to be an effective way of knowing each other better in the presence of the counselor. It is also helpful and in fact the most sought after place where you and your partner can discuss about any sexual disorder or any mental setback you guys have regarding sex.
Talk to a sexologist
If the man in the relationship has any sexual problem such as erectile dysfunction, phobia to perform in bed, premature ejaculation, low production of sperm counts or anything else, visiting a sexologist can be a good idea. They can diagnose the issue and suggest medicines best for impotence and harder erections. The man need to get hard in the bed and should be capable enough to last longer to reach the climax. Women prefer men with that quality and this is fact the greatest secret of a happy sex life.
Be compassionate and supportive towards each other
There are times that men fail to meet with the expectations of women in bed. This often happens because of stress, anxiety, work pressure, family pressure or any chronic disease such as cholesterol, diabetes etc. Sometimes, obese men also fail to maintain the hardness for long. This is the time when women should be compassionate rather than complaining. Visiting a therapist or a doctor can cure the problem. In fact, it is also a matter that couples can solve within themselves.